Is saying the
words 'work' and 'happy' in the same sentence an oxymoron? Yes? Let’s
challenge that thinking and reconsider four things at work that can
actually make you happier.
1. Routine tasks.
Conventional
thinking says that routines are boring. How can something boring
actually make you happier? Well, it is not the routine tasks that
actually make you happier, it is the time you gain when you routinize
your tasks. Neuroscience has shown that developing routines for tasks
you do the most frequently embeds them in your brain creating a pattern.
As a result, you actually spend less time and attention on that task.
Now, think about what you can do with that extra time in your day?
Doesn’t that make you smile?
2. Embrace challenging or stretch assignments that leverage your strengths.
The
project that seems overwhelming, the promotion that would require you
learn an entire new division within your company or the opportunity to
transfer to your firm’s London office could all be considered
challenging or stretch assignments fraught with anxiety, not elation and
happiness. However, it is in these challenging or stretch assignments
that we most often experience flow. Dr. Csikszentmihalyi described flow
as the optimal state between too much stress and boredom. Dr. Martin
Seligman, a psychologist, asserts that the flow state is one of the
three main drivers of human happiness. When it gets too easy or too
comfortable often times you are not in the flow. Go with the flow to
find your happiness.
3. Turn off your email notification alarm.
Constant
interruptions, “emergencies”, always on and working on someone else’s
agenda are not the ingredients for happiness at work. Turn off your
email notification alarm, the notification that alerts you to a new
message by pinging, moving your cursor or popping a message up on your
screen. When you turn off this incessant interruption two things happen.
You take back control of your time, and control has been shown to be
important for happiness, and you can focus your attention on your
priorities. You’ve got mail does not equal happiness.
4. Say yes.
Traditionally,
we are told to be happier we need to say no more often. While I agree
with this, I actually think that to be happier at work we need to say
yes more often - especially if it is a task or project that supports you
in taking one step closer towards achieving your goals. When you say
yes, you say yes with your full heart and mind. You know in saying yes
what you are saying no to and you also know how this yes will make you
happier. Say yes today and really mean it and see if you don’t smile.
Now,
try one of these four strategies by the end of this week; Then, commit
to implementing another one at the beginning of next week. Let me know -
what works for or shifts you and your day? What made you happier?
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